I was just about to write about my sexual adventure from last night, when the doorbell went and I was introduced to my housemate’s new man, who turned out to be British-Asian. Now, nothing strange there, but it started me thinking about how many white-British gay guys I know who seem to date only men with South, or South East Asian origins.
I have two close friends, in particular, who will start to tell me about the new guy they are all excited over, while I wait expectantly for the first clue that they wouldn’t be ticking the ‘white British’ box on an equal opps form. I have brought this up with one of them and asked why he always goes for Asian guys, and he hadn’t really thought about it himself, so couldn’t give a very illuminating answer, just responded with “yeah, actually, you’re right”.
The other friend goes one further and spends all the time he can in countries such as India, Nepal, and Vietnam etc; purely on a hunt for spiritual enlightenment you understand. I also have an ex whom I always suspected of having a predilection for Asian guys. Guess what? Last time I bumped into him he had just came back from Thailand!
So, I’m no nearer to understanding what’s going on here. I just know about the two Asian guys I’ve been out with: the first, Ken, was from Hong Kong, was very camp, rich, a bit highly strung and fantastic in bed. The other guy, whose name escapes me, was gentle, closeted, not very comfortable on the scene and a fumbler in the sack. That’s all I know. Oh and about the shag from last night – sweaty, energetic, lasted for hours and my arse is sore! That’s enough detail I think. Right, need to go and get ready for another night on the Town.
Laid boys from Bangkok
I have two close friends, in particular, who will start to tell me about the new guy they are all excited over, while I wait expectantly for the first clue that they wouldn’t be ticking the ‘white British’ box on an equal opps form. I have brought this up with one of them and asked why he always goes for Asian guys, and he hadn’t really thought about it himself, so couldn’t give a very illuminating answer, just responded with “yeah, actually, you’re right”.
The other friend goes one further and spends all the time he can in countries such as India, Nepal, and Vietnam etc; purely on a hunt for spiritual enlightenment you understand. I also have an ex whom I always suspected of having a predilection for Asian guys. Guess what? Last time I bumped into him he had just came back from Thailand!
So, I’m no nearer to understanding what’s going on here. I just know about the two Asian guys I’ve been out with: the first, Ken, was from Hong Kong, was very camp, rich, a bit highly strung and fantastic in bed. The other guy, whose name escapes me, was gentle, closeted, not very comfortable on the scene and a fumbler in the sack. That’s all I know. Oh and about the shag from last night – sweaty, energetic, lasted for hours and my arse is sore! That’s enough detail I think. Right, need to go and get ready for another night on the Town.