Comments on: Homo-ing beacon http://heartgaysex.com/2006/12/homo-ing-beacon/ Gay blog about sex, love, men and life Sun, 02 May 2010 21:13:50 +0000 hourly 1 By: muse-ic http://heartgaysex.com/2006/12/homo-ing-beacon/comment-page-1/#comment-71 muse-ic Sat, 30 Dec 2006 10:24:00 +0000 http://scallyboy.wordpress.com/2006/12/21/homo-ing-beacon/#comment-71 ^ i think alex hit the nail on the head ^ i think alex hit the nail on the head

]]> By: alex http://heartgaysex.com/2006/12/homo-ing-beacon/comment-page-1/#comment-70 alex Sat, 23 Dec 2006 06:40:00 +0000 http://scallyboy.wordpress.com/2006/12/21/homo-ing-beacon/#comment-70 Hi! I came via fleshbot. I have often pondered the straight-attracto-beam that a lot of gay guys really seem to pay attention to.<br /><br />I'm sure there's an element of forbidden fruit; I also think that gay culture as it has widely been disseminated essentially venerates the straight man -- just look at all the emphasis placed on being "masculine" or "straight-acting" and it's pretty clear that there's a set of behaviors and attitudes that are almost fetishized.<br /><br />Another big part of it, I'm slowly coming to believe, is that you need to get people to notice you before you can display how cool you are, and what better way to stand out than to be out in a gayclub with a girlfriend? :) enjoy the porn -- hope it's satsifying. Hi! I came via fleshbot. I have often pondered the straight-attracto-beam that a lot of gay guys really seem to pay attention to.

I’m sure there’s an element of forbidden fruit; I also think that gay culture as it has widely been disseminated essentially venerates the straight man — just look at all the emphasis placed on being “masculine” or “straight-acting” and it’s pretty clear that there’s a set of behaviors and attitudes that are almost fetishized.

Another big part of it, I’m slowly coming to believe, is that you need to get people to notice you before you can display how cool you are, and what better way to stand out than to be out in a gayclub with a girlfriend? :) enjoy the porn — hope it’s satsifying.

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