I actually went on a proper date at the weekend, rather than a ‘meet,’ and it was great. I met Richard at a house party recently and we instantly clicked – a shared love of intelligent pop and obscure films. He seemed really lovely, very down to earth and does a caring job – therefore, clearly he must be hiding some freaky personality disorder or psychotic behaviour patterns, but I was willing to risk a second look and we arranged to meet up last Saturday. We went to a couple of bars, had some good conversations, got a little bit drunk, but not too drunk, and ended up in a packed club where we hardly left the dancefloor all night, really let ourselves go, and left while we still had some energy.

You didn’t really need to know all that, but I think a bit of back-story is nice! And it leads on to my current dilemma; well it’s not really a dilemma, but more a wondering… After the club we came back to mine, had another drink, got into some serious tonguing on the sofa and started shedding clothes – Richard is a nice looking guy, quite tall, but his clothes hadn’t hinted at what a fantastic body lay underneath: a toned swimmer’s body and a hunky covering of dark chest hair; big arms too. He thrust me down on my back and from what I could feel bulging through his briefs, he had the full package.

To cut a long story short (and apologies if I’m skipping the best bit), with all the alcohol and him taking charge, I was feeling very seduced and when he whispered into my ear that he wanted to fuck me, I didn’t need asking twice. It was fantastic, but I broke my vague dating rule of keeping it strictly oral on the first night and saving the anal stuff for at least the second fuck (different if it’s just a meet for sex); after all, it’s good to keep something back for later and not use up all your weapons in one go. Now I’m worried I was a bit too easy, and he’ll see it as a one-night-stand – we’ve texted briefly since but no firm plans to meet up as yet. I hope we do; I really like him; besides, he’ll find I’ve got plenty more up my arsenal.