Comments on: Off the gaydar http://heartgaysex.com/2007/04/off-the-gaydar/ Gay blog about sex, love, men and life Sun, 02 May 2010 21:13:50 +0000 hourly 1 By: Joe http://heartgaysex.com/2007/04/off-the-gaydar/comment-page-1/#comment-107 Joe Wed, 09 May 2007 20:11:00 +0000 http://scallyboy.wordpress.com/2007/04/21/off-the-gaydar/#comment-107 Cheers for the advice. In the end I deleted my account and, I have to be honest, haven't missed it that much - apart from the 2 day cold turkey! Cheers for the advice. In the end I deleted my account and, I have to be honest, haven’t missed it that much – apart from the 2 day cold turkey!

]]> By: The Average Joe http://heartgaysex.com/2007/04/off-the-gaydar/comment-page-1/#comment-106 The Average Joe Wed, 02 May 2007 16:31:00 +0000 http://scallyboy.wordpress.com/2007/04/21/off-the-gaydar/#comment-106 if its an issue thats hurting your dating id delete the profile. its one of those cases it doesnt matter whether who is right, it matters what deleting it or keeping it means for your relationship. if its an issue thats hurting your dating id delete the profile. its one of those cases it doesnt matter whether who is right, it matters what deleting it or keeping it means for your relationship.

]]> By: Joe http://heartgaysex.com/2007/04/off-the-gaydar/comment-page-1/#comment-105 Joe Fri, 27 Apr 2007 21:00:00 +0000 http://scallyboy.wordpress.com/2007/04/21/off-the-gaydar/#comment-105 I like your conversion factor - a bit like dog years!<br/>Using email instead of Gaydar is a good idea, but to be honest, I think the extra effort required, as opposed to just logging in and chatting online, would make me crap at keeping in touch. <br/>Maybe it's just best to let these things die a natural death; one of those relationship compromises - or I could just delete my old account and set up a secret one! I like your conversion factor – a bit like dog years!
Using email instead of Gaydar is a good idea, but to be honest, I think the extra effort required, as opposed to just logging in and chatting online, would make me crap at keeping in touch.
Maybe it’s just best to let these things die a natural death; one of those relationship compromises – or I could just delete my old account and set up a secret one!

]]> By: J.B. http://heartgaysex.com/2007/04/off-the-gaydar/comment-page-1/#comment-104 J.B. Wed, 25 Apr 2007 10:14:00 +0000 http://scallyboy.wordpress.com/2007/04/21/off-the-gaydar/#comment-104 Does he know about this blog? Does he know about this blog?

]]> By: Adam http://heartgaysex.com/2007/04/off-the-gaydar/comment-page-1/#comment-103 Adam Sun, 22 Apr 2007 13:41:00 +0000 http://scallyboy.wordpress.com/2007/04/21/off-the-gaydar/#comment-103 Hmmm...<br/><br/>Well, I'm not sure of the precise conversion factor, but two months in the gay world is probably six or eight months in the straight world. I found myself in a similar position with my partner (I think we were further into the relationship), and that's when I found out he had issues about fidelity based on his past relationships. <br/><br/>I don't know your whole relationship history, but I'm thinking that, if you think Rich has some longterm prospects, that you save your buddy list, email your Gaydar buds and let them know the situation, then cancel the account. The folks who would still like to chat with you can email you, and you can always re-establish the account if, by some chance, things go south with Rich.<br/><br/>Of course, that's just my opinion; I could be wrong... Hmmm…

Well, I’m not sure of the precise conversion factor, but two months in the gay world is probably six or eight months in the straight world. I found myself in a similar position with my partner (I think we were further into the relationship), and that’s when I found out he had issues about fidelity based on his past relationships.

I don’t know your whole relationship history, but I’m thinking that, if you think Rich has some longterm prospects, that you save your buddy list, email your Gaydar buds and let them know the situation, then cancel the account. The folks who would still like to chat with you can email you, and you can always re-establish the account if, by some chance, things go south with Rich.

Of course, that’s just my opinion; I could be wrong…

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