Monthly Archives: March 2009

Go f*@% yourself

By Joe | Published: March 30, 2009
One of the biggest differences about being gay is that it’s possible to date a person so similar to yourself that, at times, you might as well be having sex and be in a relationship with yourself. Although very different in some ways, like views and background, Rich and I are similar in so many [...]
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Homophobia is so gay

By Joe | Published: March 23, 2009
Homophobia has been on my mind a lot this past week and I think I can trace this thought strand back to three separate scenarios, the first being the most obvious and easiest to explain: while casually flicking through the rubbish on TV I landed slap, bang in the middle of some grotesquely outdated and [...]
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Dropping the ball

By Joe | Published: March 16, 2009
Rich and I had bad sex for the first time a few nights ago. In the two years (on and off) that we’ve been together we have had quick sex, no-frills sex, drunken sex, emotional sex, lazy sex, but never bad sex. By ‘bad sex’ I mean sex that starts awkwardly, feels laboured, has no [...]
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Fucking outside the box

By Joe | Published: March 8, 2009
I need to get myself a gay sex fetish. It seems anyone who’s anyone has their own personal, sexual idiosyncrasy – it’s all about finding your niche. Over brunch and a catchup yesterday with three of my gay mates the conversation, as always, turned highly explicit over eggs and the weekend supplements – for once [...]
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