Monthly Archives: June 2009

In the closet

It always amuses me that, if you type the name of most male celebrities + ‘gay?’ into Google, you’ll quickly find this question posted again and again, along with fiercely debated discussions about their sexuality and some people claiming to be the authority on the matter. I don’t see the issue of whether famous people should [...]
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Gay sex is the best form of defence

I found myself having defensive gay sex last night. Rich is away all week on a residential training course for his job. I know what these things can be like: a remote hotel with nothing to do in the evening apart from drink and loosen up with your training buddies. What if there’s some hot, [...]
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Jamming their gaydar

I got a late night, S.O.S. call from a friend yesterday. Andy was on the phone to me, in a bit of a state, terrified of the bleeps emitting from the corner of his room and convinced that his computer had become a malicious force out to get him. How had my usually sane friend [...]
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Fight or fuck?

I’ve had a fair amount of gay sex as an adult (I challenge anyone to define ‘fair’), but have never been involved in a fight. This might seem a strange statement to make, but after an experience I had at the weekend, I believe these two forms of physical expression aren’t so far removed. To say [...]
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