Comments on: In the closet http://heartgaysex.com/2009/06/in-the-closet/ Gay blog about sex, love, men and life Sun, 02 May 2010 21:13:50 +0000 hourly 1 By: Mike http://heartgaysex.com/2009/06/in-the-closet/comment-page-1/#comment-2391 Mike Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:34:01 +0000 http://heartgaysex.com/?p=320#comment-2391 My ex went to an all-boy school and the things he apparently got up to fair boggle the mind! You are right, you never stop coming out to people. You change jobs, meet friends of friends... meet interesting guys in a situation where a big badge reading "GAY" would REALLY help. And yes, when you do come out to someone you've known for a while they can end up treating you differently. I've found that people to whom I am/was close were quite hurt by my deception, which I didn't anticipate but I do regret. It's different every time; but I do think if there was ANY kind of sexual experimentation with these guys then I do fear it might be uncomfortable. Good luck! :-) My ex went to an all-boy school and the things he apparently got up to fair boggle the mind!

You are right, you never stop coming out to people. You change jobs, meet friends of friends… meet interesting guys in a situation where a big badge reading “GAY” would REALLY help. And yes, when you do come out to someone you’ve known for a while they can end up treating you differently. I’ve found that people to whom I am/was close were quite hurt by my deception, which I didn’t anticipate but I do regret. It’s different every time; but I do think if there was ANY kind of sexual experimentation with these guys then I do fear it might be uncomfortable. Good luck! :-)

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