Author Archives: Joe

Out of the office

By Joe | Published: March 7, 2010
After starting a job, when is the right time to come out to your new work mates? If you come out too quickly you risk making your sexuality larger in other peoples’ minds than it should be and you’re not giving them the chance to get to know you on a personal level first. However, [...]
Posted in gay life | Leave a comment

Let them have it

By Joe | Published: February 27, 2010
Imagine if the word ‘gay’ didn’t exist; what would that be like? If there were no easy, all-encompassing label for a diverse and disparate group of people – it would be harder to lump us all together and to discriminate against. If there were no such term as ‘gay’, people would have to work a bit [...]
Posted in gay life | Leave a comment

Fuck Valentine’s Day!

By Joe | Published: February 19, 2010
I’m afraid Valentine’s Day usually gets a shrug from me: until they make a ‘Happy Gay Wedding Anniversary’ card I don’t see why I should prop up this cynical, hetero, cash-in. This year, however, Rich and me decided to say “fuck it” to VD day – quite literally. We turned the whole weekend into a gay [...]
Posted in gay sex | 1 Comment

Just do it!

By Joe | Published: February 12, 2010
To steal a phrase from a famous sportswear brand, when it comes to gay sex, all those curious guys just need to do it! I’ve known so many guys living the straight life who I’ve strongly suspected of having more than a passing curiosity about what gay men get up to in bed: they’re fishing for [...]
Posted in gay sex | 2 Comments

  • Archives