Author Archives: Joe
Selective fucking, not breeding
A friend of mine has upset another friend by referring to his boyfriend as a “walking dildo” and suggesting they’re only together because the boyfriend is hot and they have an amazing gay sex life. Which was out of line and also missing the point. We live in a culture that says we should value [...]
Out of the office
After starting a job, when is the right time to come out to your new work mates? If you come out too quickly you risk making your sexuality larger in other peoples’ minds than it should be and you’re not giving them the chance to get to know you on a personal level first. However, [...]
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Let them have it
Imagine if the word ‘gay’ didn’t exist; what would that be like? If there were no easy, all-encompassing label for a diverse and disparate group of people – it would be harder to lump us all together and to discriminate against. If there were no such term as ‘gay’, people would have to work a [...]
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Fuck; it’s over