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Fuck; it’s over

By Joe | Published: April 27, 2010
The end of a relationship always seems to be the same – in my experience, anyway. It reminds me of that scene in Animal Farm where the other animals are looking on and, to their dawning horror, the pigs start to resemble the former, human masters who the animals toppled, and history repeats. I’m not [...]
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Selective fucking, not breeding

By Joe | Published: March 15, 2010
A friend of mine has upset another friend by referring to his boyfriend as a “walking dildo” and suggesting they’re only together because the boyfriend is hot and they have an amazing gay sex life. Which was out of line and also missing the point. We live in a culture that says we should value [...]
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Love + gay + sex = ?

By Joe | Published: October 9, 2009
It used to be, long ago, in the bad old days, when gays didn’t exist and women weren’t aloud to speak, that a man and a woman would meet; the man would pursue the woman, he would propose, they would marry, then move in together, finally have sex and never break up. Fortunately, in these [...]
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Go f*@% yourself

By Joe | Published: March 30, 2009
One of the biggest differences about being gay is that it’s possible to date a person so similar to yourself that, at times, you might as well be having sex and be in a relationship with yourself. Although very different in some ways, like views and background, Rich and I are similar in so many [...]
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